Unbelievable A friend of mine had a similar experience, her second bub couldn't feed and she tried so hard for 6 weeks, refused to give him formula, ended up with severe PND and couldn't bear to look at him for a while. She went to her doc and said it felt like bub couldn't attach properly, and doc says of course, he's tongue tied - which no-one had bothered to tell her! So it was a simple snip, but by then bub screamed whenever he went near her breast, so he had to be formula fed

Can you say anything to the 'professionals', to let them know how angry/disappointed you are?